Hello world I decided to write this topic from my experiences. I have a lot of friends still I have, but none of these friends are real.And I always value them my real friends at my 40’s I find out these are not my actual friend.
I love blogging you can express your feeling and though the blogging, and I meet lots of great ladies in EBA blogging group. It’s one great big family. They are honest and try to give them their real opening. EBA Facebook Friendship is just one of the best facets of life.
Having said that, some friends are far much better than many others.
Real friends and fake friends can be hard to distinguish. However, they are rather distinct! Real friends are the type of people that you can go to when you need anything.
Real friends will always be on your side, through thick and thin. While your fake friends might as well be the scum of the Earth for all the support, they will give you.
It’s miles vital to recognize which you are striking out with the right kind of friends, the real ones and those who will rise for you and be there for you irrespective of what or what not. These are a few ways on how you can distinguish between real and fake friends.
- SUPPORTING YOUR DREAMS
Real friends will support you in all your endeavors; they will also help you to achieve them. Whether it is changing your career altogether or taking up dance classes, your real friend will support you.On the other hand your fake friends will only discourage you that you are not capable.
- THE FORGIVE YOU WHEN YOU MAKE MISTAKES
When the friendship is real, your friend forgives your mistakes or misunderstandings will likely be forgiven and forgotten. There won’t be any bad or grudges feelings about anything. That is because they value the friendship more than other things.
- APPROVING YOU THE WAY YOUR’E
Real friends will likely be mad at you for a lot of things; however, they will not ever judge you. They will accept you the way you might be, and they pretty much understand your style. That’s the exactly why you guys became friends right? So, if you have any friend trying to change the way you think, just know they are fake friends.
- STANDING UP FOR YOU
Real friends don’t care about how many relations will get spoiled, but they’ll stand up irrespective of what. They want to be there for you as well as shield you from anybody who needs to harm you. The fake ones, however, are the ones that are imitation yet will just ignore and request that you cope with your troubles in your own.
- YOUR SECRETS ARE SAFE WITH THEM
There is nothing to worry about when you share any secrets with them. Share your darkest secrets they will hear you out patiently and will keep it safe with them. Your privacy respected by friends that are real and be sure your secrets do not go out under any conditions not even when you guys are fighting.
- THEY KEEP IN TOUCH WITH YOU
Bogus friends will only contact you when they wish to learn some juicy gossip or need something. Real friends will get in touch with you wherever and whenever because they are always interested in what’s going on in your life.
- THEY MAKE TIME FOR YOU
Whenever they only have an hour between their work hours, it doesn’t matter; a real friend will let you come over to get a drink any moment. It isn’t a matter of time; it’s a matter of they want to spend time with you, rather than having time to themselves.
- THEY MAKE PROMISES THEY CAN’T KEEP
You know a false friend when they plan an occasion with you. Oh, you are so happy at first. Then, with time you won’t hear from them. So sad you are left planning the entire occasion alone. To top it all off, they won’t even show up at all. People like this hate to hear excuses but they won’t feel any guilt coming up with their excuses.
- GOSSIPING ABOUT OTHERS
If you have friends that talk about other people almost every time, the question is how much they are saying behind your back. A real friend would never do that, real friends will always have your back.
- THEY ONLY REMEMBER YOU WHEN THEY NEED YOU
A fake friend will always take advantage of you. They see you working hard in at work, so they jump on the bandwagon and get an advantage. But a real friend is ready to pay back your kindness in a hundredfold. But friends that don’t do this only see you as a stepping stone. And they will ditch you once they achieve what they want.
Most of us are often caught up in the honeymoon of fake friendship. But with time many things will be revealed like whether a friendship has is real or fake.
Hopefully, this guide will help you with which sort of friends you surround yourself with if you’re trying to decide whether your friends are genuine or not.
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